He doesn't even suspect that he's already hooked. No manipulation or complex psychological techniques are needed - sometimes one phrase is enough to turn his perception upside down.
But these are not banal compliments, but words that hit the mark.
Let's start with the unobvious: "I trust you." For a man, this is a signal that you see him as a reliable person, and not "just another guy."
Trust awakens responsibility and the desire to meet your expectations.
The next phrase is “How did you come up with this?” A question that emphasizes his uniqueness.
Men love it when their intelligence or creativity is noticed, especially if it has nothing to do with work or money.
One of the most powerful phrases is "I feel safe with you." It taps into the ancient protective instinct.
Even a modern man wants to be the one who gives support, and these words confirm that he is doing it.
Even more powerful is: “You inspire me.” This is not just a compliment, but an acknowledgement that he is changing your life for the better.
And finally, “I like it when you…” Follow up with something personal: “…laugh at your own jokes” or “…talk about the stars.” This shows that you notice him specifically, and aren’t playing by the book.
But remember: the magic is not in the words, but in the sincerity. If the phrases sound like a memorized text, the effect will be the opposite.
Let them become a natural part of your dialogue - then he really won't be able to resist.
Author: Kurchev Anton